Question by zoeilene: Christian dating?
I was just wondering what some fellow Christians think…how far is too far to go in a relationship? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and although it doesn’t sound like long, I am completely in love with him. And I know he feels the same way. I made the decision a long time ago to save myself until marriage and I will absolutely keep that promise to myself and God. My boyfriend is not a virgin but completely supports and respects my decision. He never pressures me to do anything and always makes sure I am comfortable. But my question is…how far can you go without being inappropriate? Is it ok to make out and touch? Again, I can’t stress this enough, we are not having sex of any kind. And also, if it matters, I am 23 and he is 29. Thank you in advance for your answers.
Best answer:
Answer by siylencedogood The best thing we can do is not put ourselves in the position to be tempted. If you do anything that even begins to tempt you to go against what you know to be right. If you do anything that provides the opportunity for sin, it would be best not to continue doing it. It is very easy to go beyond what our intentions are “and get caught up in the moment.”
The more time you give to focus on the physical, the less you focus on the spiritual. 3 months is a very short time to be together anyway…use this time to determine if this person is the right one for you to marry, learn about his beliefs/doctrine, about kids, schools, political views, aspirations, his calling, his preferences for entertainment, sports, etc etc..things that would cause you to not marry this person…that is what this time is for…(addition) because if he is not the right one…you can move on and find the right one.
The physical comes when we are married…as a gift to us. There is no other reason for a Christian to date, or to have a relationship than with “the intention” to be married according to God’s will. If the goal/intent is not marriage…to find a husband, then there is no point to the relationship.
Question by Samian’s 10th -Giuliani 2012: Why are dating sites clogged with “Christian women looking for nice Christian family men” but no Atheist girls?
Well, okay, *barely* any Atheist girls! ((
I mean, seriously, how hard is it to find a girl interested in a relationship that isn’t crazy about that Middle Eastern Superhero and that storybook?!
(And don’t ask me about secularsingles.com. I already tried that.)
Best answer:
Answer by Andy I dunno, maybe your just going on the wrong ones
Question by BoingBoing: Is the name “MustLoveJesus” a good name for a Christian dating site?
My friend and I are thinking of launching a Christian dating site. So we came up with the name MustLoveJesus as in MustLoveJesus.com.
We got the idea from the movie called MustLoveDogs. So we think the Love of Jesus is important in any relationship.
Thanks and God bless you
Best answer:
Answer by xyourockmyworldx yeahhh i think that sounds good even though
im not christian
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