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Question by zoeilene: Christian dating?
I was just wondering what some fellow Christians think…how far is too far to go in a relationship? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and although it doesn’t sound like long, I am completely in love with him. And I know he feels the same way. I made the decision a long time ago to save myself until marriage and I will absolutely keep that promise to myself and God. My boyfriend is not a virgin but completely supports and respects my decision. He never pressures me to do anything and always makes sure I am comfortable. But my question is…how far can you go without being inappropriate? Is it ok to make out and touch? Again, I can’t stress this enough, we are not having sex of any kind. And also, if it matters, I am 23 and he is 29. Thank you in advance for your answers.
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Answer by siylencedogood
The best thing we can do is not put ourselves in the position to be tempted. If you do anything that even begins to tempt you to go against what you know to be right. If you do anything that provides the opportunity for sin, it would be best not to continue doing it. It is very easy to go beyond what our intentions are “and get caught up in the moment.”
The more time you give to focus on the physical, the less you focus on the spiritual. 3 months is a very short time to be together anyway…use this time to determine if this person is the right one for you to marry, learn about his beliefs/doctrine, about kids, schools, political views, aspirations, his calling, his preferences for entertainment, sports, etc etc..things that would cause you to not marry this person…that is what this time is for…(addition) because if he is not the right one…you can move on and find the right one.
The physical comes when we are married…as a gift to us. There is no other reason for a Christian to date, or to have a relationship than with “the intention” to be married according to God’s will. If the goal/intent is not marriage…to find a husband, then there is no point to the relationship.
Take Care and God Bless!
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Question by College FreshMen: christian dating????????????/?
i am having problems that i need to solve quickly, its about love well
i love this girl beyond words but she is christian and i am asian buddhist ,
she and me is going lovey dovey for like more then 5 months then she broke up with me saying she is christian and its a sin to go out with a person wh is not christian, i know for a fact that its not another guy , or she lost interest me. today she cred and told me she love me alot but she put god first….i am really hurt what should i say,,,,,i cant let relgion stand in our way…we been through to much
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Answer by i is me
Wow, she’s kind of ignorant. I’m a total chritian, but i don’t see anything wrong with going out with someone who is not. Look, she probably just doesn’t like you any more, or maybe she truely does belive it is a sin. you just have to ask her.
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Question by Lauren B: Christian Dating?
I have an interest in a guy down the street. I am a single Christian woman who is desperately seeking love. I only know that this guy walks his dog and at times we run into one another and let our dogs play. I am pretty sure he is single. How in the world do I know if he is Christian? I want to make a move but if he is, lets say an Atheist, I don’t want to even bother. What to do???
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Answer by T M
I don’t know thats a tough one. Maybe you can start talking to him and see. But try not to get emotionally involved too soon. Maybe try someone that goes to your church. Good Luck
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Question by Game Mistress: Best online christian dating site/ways to meet christian singles.?
What are some of the best christian dating sites or other ways to meet christian singles?
(please don’t say eHarmony because I don’t know of anyone who has had any luck with that site)
The guy is looking for someplace that he may be able to find someone local. He’s had bad luck with women saying they’re willing to relocate, then changing their mind after a few months.
He attends a small church in a fairly decent-sized city that only has 4 single members (all male) I’ve suggested he try to attend a different church on occasion to try to meet new people, but he feels like he’s “bailing” on his church. I’ve suggested calling other churches to see if they hold singles events but again he hasn’t tried that.
He’s 31 and he’s looking to get married and start a family, not for friends with benefits. He’s a great guy and I’d love for him to find someone, but meeting new people is difficult when you’re not sure where to find them.
Get lost Donut, if you can’t come up with a real answer I don’t want to deal with your worthless little stupid responses.
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Answer by Donut
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