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Question by : Need a bit of Christian dating advice?
I know the bible talks about how when we date we are not to date for the purpose of just messing around. We do it in search for a person to be with the rest of our lives. So i know there’s nothign wrong with thinking about marrying your girlfriend/boyfriend even though your years away from doing so. However me and my girlfriend had a conversation about how awesome it would be if we got married in the future. Me and her have been dating for 6 months now and i still have about 5 years to go before i want to get married.

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Answer by SongArtist
Hmm I can say is that if you guys do love each other I would pray about it & if it is God’s will then He will direct your paths. And that you guys would be faithful to each other. Just leave things in His hands & you’ll see His plans for you God bless.

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Question by Matt: any good christian teen chat rooms?
im looking for a christian chat room for teens. I deleted my myspace about a week ago now cuz of all the sensual pictures people put up and the language people use. So i wanted to chat and meet christians around the world (teens tho =)…) So if you know any good websites…chat roooms anything, that will help me out =) Thank you so much. God Bless you all!

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Answer by Je t’aime ♥
If you want to meet like teens that are Christian, a good place is a youth group.
You can make a lot of long term friends there and they all are Christian too rather than meeting strangers online
I’m sure your church will have one anyways.

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Question by zoeilene: Christian dating?
I was just wondering what some fellow Christians think…how far is too far to go in a relationship? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and although it doesn’t sound like long, I am completely in love with him. And I know he feels the same way. I made the decision a long time ago to save myself until marriage and I will absolutely keep that promise to myself and God. My boyfriend is not a virgin but completely supports and respects my decision. He never pressures me to do anything and always makes sure I am comfortable. But my question is…how far can you go without being inappropriate? Is it ok to make out and touch? Again, I can’t stress this enough, we are not having sex of any kind. And also, if it matters, I am 23 and he is 29. Thank you in advance for your answers.

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Answer by siylencedogood
The best thing we can do is not put ourselves in the position to be tempted. If you do anything that even begins to tempt you to go against what you know to be right. If you do anything that provides the opportunity for sin, it would be best not to continue doing it. It is very easy to go beyond what our intentions are “and get caught up in the moment.”

The more time you give to focus on the physical, the less you focus on the spiritual. 3 months is a very short time to be together anyway…use this time to determine if this person is the right one for you to marry, learn about his beliefs/doctrine, about kids, schools, political views, aspirations, his calling, his preferences for entertainment, sports, etc etc..things that would cause you to not marry this person…that is what this time is for…(addition) because if he is not the right one…you can move on and find the right one.

The physical comes when we are married…as a gift to us. There is no other reason for a Christian to date, or to have a relationship than with “the intention” to be married according to God’s will. If the goal/intent is not marriage…to find a husband, then there is no point to the relationship.

Take Care and God Bless!

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Question by College FreshMen: christian dating????????????/?
i am having problems that i need to solve quickly, its about love well

i love this girl beyond words but she is christian and i am asian buddhist ,

she and me is going lovey dovey for like more then 5 months then she broke up with me saying she is christian and its a sin to go out with a person wh is not christian, i know for a fact that its not another guy , or she lost interest me. today she cred and told me she love me alot but she put god first….i am really hurt what should i say,,,,,i cant let relgion stand in our way…we been through to much

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Answer by i is me
Wow, she’s kind of ignorant. I’m a total chritian, but i don’t see anything wrong with going out with someone who is not. Look, she probably just doesn’t like you any more, or maybe she truely does belive it is a sin. you just have to ask her.

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Question by confused.bubble: Christian dating..?
So.. here’s my dillemma..
I’m single now.. have been for two weeks, not ready for another boyfriend but I’m thinking about the future.. I’m a christian and I’m struggling with the fact christians should date christians.. please don’t abuse me for that, just respect that’s my belief..
But I don’t know what to do, because I’m not like other christians. I don’t like preachy christians or controlling goody goody one’s.
I’m just normal, but believe in God and do my best to do the right thing.
So I don’t think I’ll be happy with any of the christian guys I’ve met because they’re.. SUPER christian.
What do I do?
I don’t want to be alone.
I’m 18, and I would love to be engaged at 21.. I reckon I’m gonna TRY to take at least a year off to just find myself and enjoy being single. But yeah.. so at 19/20 I’m worried about not finding someone.. I don’t live in the city either.. towns population is about 15000.
By the way for whoever it was who mentioned soul mates.. sorry I’ve forgotten your username..

I don’t believe in soul mates..
I believe when you marry someone they BECOME your soul mate through marriage.

Because I believe if your partner dies you can remarry (although if I’m old I probably wont remarry)
So how can you have just one person out there for you? I don’t believe in soulmates, you can.. but just letting you all know I don’t so when answering that can help you a bit more.
I’d love to be engaged so young because I want to have my children in my mid twenties.
I don’t want to have children in my 30′s.. that’s just too late for me.

I know I’m 18, but I’m not 18 mentally, and tend to go for guy a couple years older than me.
And I don’t think in the now, I think in the 10 years from now, I know I could meet someone at 20 and be engaged at 21.
I want to be single for a while.
I’m just afraid of the future.
How many times will I add additional details, you may ask lol

I’m not in a rush to marry anyone.. if I’m 21 and we a fella and I wasn’t 100% sure of marrying him, I wont marry him in the hopes “Meh, at least I’ll be married”

I’m not dumb.
So PLEASE stop saying stuff about the being engaged at 21..
That’s the age i’d like to engaged at.
Not the age I HAVE to be engaged at.
I know exactly what I want in life. And wont settle for less just because I want to be married.
All I’m saying is.. I don’t want to be in my 30′s having children.. I can’t have children at that age and would rather not say why.

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Answer by vizicky
travel and you will find someone.

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